Why am i cursed with such women?

[fenrizz]

To be fair, women have pretty much the same problems with dudes.

People aren't perfect. When they are, the world repeatedly craps on them until they're far too broken to ever be called so.
If you want love, you have to find someone who you are willing to wholly accept who also wholly accepts you.
Anyone who goes for perfection will be sorely disappointed.

/thread
Think this says it all really.

 

[Ultimathul]

To be fair, women have pretty much the same problems with dudes.

People aren't perfect. When they are, the world repeatedly craps on them until they're far too broken to ever be called so.
If you want love, you have to find someone who you are willing to wholly accept who also wholly accepts you.
Anyone who goes for perfection will be sorely disappointed.

This, I have never dated a girl who wasnt crazy on some level. You just have to accept them and enjoy what you have

Yes, but its hard to accept or like someone who you think is a nice girl you go through all the fucking levels of hell to get a date and it turns out that Shes a fucking idiot! it just seems that whatever i manage to do i am always constantly assaulted by idiots. every Fucking time. either i am extremely unlucky or i am the only one seeing a pattern here.

 

[Nmil-ek]

Be thankful you even get women bleh.

 

[Shagari]

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From what some people have told me, it all boils down to this:

25% - already in a relationship
25% - don't want a relationship
35% - some imperfection gets in the way
15% - all for the taking

I don't agree with that, just what i've been told. I believe that relationships are when you get to know someone and like them for who they are (and therefore look over imperfections).

These two mindsets are the two main ones that I find in any person, either they're in for a relationship for the hell of it, or they're in to find true love. If you're trying for one, but using techniques for the other, it's going to lead nowhere.

I totally agree with you. There's nothing more I can add to your observations.

 

[Plauged1]

To be fair, women have pretty much the same problems with dudes.

People aren't perfect. When they are, the world repeatedly craps on them until they're far too broken to ever be called so.
If you want love, you have to find someone who you are willing to wholly accept who also wholly accepts you.
Anyone who goes for perfection will be sorely disappointed.

True. But also, if you lower your standards, you will be surprised as of what is perfect to you.

 

[Zombie_Fish]

If you're going to be a perfectionist good luck finding "the one".

 

[The_Chief]

I don't notice that there's a lack of date-able women. I do notice a notable lack of date-ability in myself though..

this. but im gunna BUST A MOVE. next wednesday when me and my best broski ask these two girls out of a double date. god i hope it works out. *runs and hides in corner till he regains confidence. please wait 3 days.*

 

[Arachon]

Honestly, you have way too rigid standards... The perfect woman is the one who is somewhere between all of your criteria.... Just stay away from girls born 1992... They're plain horrid in all ways... Scientifically proven.

 

[massau]

i don't see that problem but mine problem is that i only see women i'm attracted to on vacations

 

[dukethepcdr]

Why is it that 99% of the time when you find someone you could love you find something fatally wrong with them?

Either they are:

Amazing body but horrible mind

Amazing mind but horrible body

Or amazing mind amazing body but has been so wrecked by exes she thinks you'll molest her kids just because you are male -.-

Thoughts?

That's why I gave up trying to date cover model quality girls and started dating more "normal" and "plain" girls. On the inside (emotions, ideas, ways they treat other people etc) they are much more "amazing" as you put it, than the model types. Besides, I don't know about you, but I'm far from being GQ cover model material myself and I think those "pretty" girls were too shallow to be interested in me either.

 

[EeveeElectro]

Well... I suggest moving...

You need to gain a woman's trust so she knows you're not a nutcase.
The 'amazing body, horrible mind. Amazing mind, horrible body' bit pissed me off.
If it boils down to looks over personality, you probably wont find the girl you want.

 

[Neonbob]

Relationships are horrible things anyway! What I find would be best to do is just harden the fuck up. First thing, buy 50 puppies and release the said puppies into areas in which cruel things would happen. Say for example, release 10 in a field of bear traps, 10 into a field of fire traps, 10 into a field of wild and angry cats, 10 into a mine field and the other 10, release them into a field and give them a while to get away, then get a high powered rifle and start firing. Of course they have to be the cutest puppies around, otherwise it would just be silly.

My girl is pretty much as crazy as I am, so I got lucky as hell to find her the first time around.

Crazy girls are always great! Though, naturally you gotta be crazy too.

I like to think I fit that description quite well. And I love your idea above!

 

[crypt-creature]

But in the interest of not taking shit seriously: Typical wimmins. Always tryin' to climb above their station! (is there anything above a kitchen? Why would you want to go to an attic?)
please do not stab me it is just a joke

Hey, if the attic is spacious enough and I have it all to myself, why not take an attic over a kitchen? Besides, people don't usually have a kitchen in their attic. So no kitchen duty for me, as it is I enjoy having very little interaction with my family any way. The attic wouldn't be so bad.

 

[jasoncyrus]

Sounds like you are an immature twerp really.

"Amazing mind but horrible body" would indicate that you don't get along with them, thus it is love, not lust, sorry you don't know the difference.

"Amazing mind and body but" means that you are too immature or impatient to know how to work with a woman to allow her to see you for what you are. Trust is not built in a day, especially if someone's trust has been violated before.

"Amazing mind but horrible body" here the fault is again you, you are a shallow little man who would pass up love for something transitionary. You do know that 18 year old hot body will shrivil up and not look as nice in 60 years right?

I'm guessing overall you are in the "under 16" crowd?

Sounds like you need to learn some manners friend =)

Look at the rest of the comments in the first few pages. No one else is coming from the flaming angle. If you are going to troll, feel free not to post.

As for age, I'm 23.

As for you, clearly you've never dated since you cant empathise at all. Either that or you are a man hater.

Like i said, go troll elsewhere, or i'll verbally cut you off at the knees.

Well... I suggest moving...

You need to gain a woman's trust so she knows you're not a nutcase.
The 'amazing body, horrible mind. Amazing mind, horrible body' bit pissed me off.
If it boils down to looks over personality, you probably wont find the girl you want.

As i stated in some of my first replies, I'm looking for average. Anything below average ain't worth my time since it probably won't arouse me, thus making it difficult to show my physcal affection for her without viagra etc.

People should from this point on read the earlier pages before commenting.

 

[Deef]

Why is it that 99% of the time when you find someone you could love you find something fatally wrong with them?

Either they are:

Amazing body but horrible mind

Amazing mind but horrible body

Or amazing mind amazing body but has been so wrecked by exes she thinks you'll molest her kids just because you are male -.-

Thoughts?

What!?!?
There is this thing called; "Game". I think you lack it.

I just lost the game.

Oh and the way you stated the flaws made you sound kinda shallow.
The flaw I get most is a weak personality, you don't really notice until after a few dates.

 

[Phoenix Arrow]

ITT: Bitter nerds?

 

[bmf185]

Dating is an unreal shitshow due to mutually high standards between the two people. However, reproducing asexually is boring.

 

[Khazoth]

Most women are deceptive creatures out to drain you of your soul.

Most men are lecherous dogs who would hump every leg in the bar if it was socially acceptable and they knew it might lead to something else.


In the end, they even each other out.