Am I Really the Minority When it Comes to Sex?
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Sir, marriage, in biblical terms, was invented to keep organisation and order to relationships. That being said, I doubt that the big guy upstairs really cares that folks are fuckin' before hitchin'. Not to mention that there's a little thing in the Christian religion called "forgiveness". I think you're missing out on that there.Reenix said:
hell no, i hate how absorbed everyone else is with sex, maybe its because im not a pathetic pile of man-shit, and dont need to constantly try to justify my existence with a wet dick, but i think its quite sickening, really
interesting thing to point out:
one friend of mine is sex crazy, he has never had a girlfriend before, he has only had living sex toys, one time, while we were hanging out, he went to the bathroom, and came back about 30 minutes later, with his girlfriend, apparently, she had come by, snuck into the bathroom, and they fucked, while i waited for his dumb ass, there was not a SINGLE time they ever met for more than an hour that they did not have sex. this has happened with all his "girlfriends" and BIG SURPRISE! none of his relationships work out, i try to explain this to him, he ignores me, and cries while he masturbates three or four times in the bathroom
seriously, if you are that absorbed with sex, if you are over 16, and seeing a nipple gives you a boner, i dont think you should qualify as human, because you are waaaaay behind in evolution, youre a neanderthal for christs sake, and you should probably be sent off to an island for the criminally stupid.
interesting thing to point out:
one friend of mine is sex crazy, he has never had a girlfriend before, he has only had living sex toys, one time, while we were hanging out, he went to the bathroom, and came back about 30 minutes later, with his girlfriend, apparently, she had come by, snuck into the bathroom, and they fucked, while i waited for his dumb ass, there was not a SINGLE time they ever met for more than an hour that they did not have sex. this has happened with all his "girlfriends" and BIG SURPRISE! none of his relationships work out, i try to explain this to him, he ignores me, and cries while he masturbates three or four times in the bathroom
seriously, if you are that absorbed with sex, if you are over 16, and seeing a nipple gives you a boner, i dont think you should qualify as human, because you are waaaaay behind in evolution, youre a neanderthal for christs sake, and you should probably be sent off to an island for the criminally stupid.
I wanted to get laid from about 13 but didn't manage to seal the deal until well after that. I'm sure I would probably regret having sex early if I'd managed it, but I don't have the grounds to make that call.
At the end of the day, what your friends are doing is irrelevant. If you don't want to do it, don't. There's no reason why you should feel like you have to. You shouldn't need to even emphasise that you're chaste by choice because that just gives people an opportunity to question your decision and that causes everyone to dwell on a subject that's none of their fucking business.
Say you've never had sex (if you even feel like that's information you want to share) and don't let their reactions to that bother you. They are not responsible for your emotional wellbeing.
At the end of the day, what your friends are doing is irrelevant. If you don't want to do it, don't. There's no reason why you should feel like you have to. You shouldn't need to even emphasise that you're chaste by choice because that just gives people an opportunity to question your decision and that causes everyone to dwell on a subject that's none of their fucking business.
Say you've never had sex (if you even feel like that's information you want to share) and don't let their reactions to that bother you. They are not responsible for your emotional wellbeing.
Hey you know I think that kids are so eager to get their bone on, simply because they think it makes 'em adults. In my high-school, and even once I was out of that god-awful place, I saw nothing but trouble when kids went fucking about before they were emotionally ready. Personally, I didn't get any fun-time in with a girl until after I was out of high-school, and I had been dating her for a year already. Some people might think that's insane, but whatever. And she still ended up screwing me over and ditching. *shrugs* Shit happens. People need to be more careful about who they bone, and I think that 14 or 15 is far to young for kids to be having sex.
I agree with the poster. This is a serious matter. Many people do not think of the physical, emotional, and spiritual (to those who it applies) damage that sex can cause. If you get a girl pregnant outside a committed relationship, serious financial damage can occur.
why would you make such a statement in the first place? (think about it)
now i'd say that it's because most human beings are afraid of feeling that they're alone, In this world, is the destiny of mankind controlled by some transcendental entity or law? Is it like the hand of God hovering above? At least it is true that man has no control; even over his own will. (Berserk lol)
now the funny quote of Berserk:
"It was much too big to be called a sword. Massive, thick, heavy, and far too rough. Indeed, it was a heap of raw iron."
now i'd say that it's because most human beings are afraid of feeling that they're alone, In this world, is the destiny of mankind controlled by some transcendental entity or law? Is it like the hand of God hovering above? At least it is true that man has no control; even over his own will. (Berserk lol)
now the funny quote of Berserk:
"It was much too big to be called a sword. Massive, thick, heavy, and far too rough. Indeed, it was a heap of raw iron."
Nope, it's just that sex sells, and sex is so much easier to find than love.Julianking93 said:
No, I'm exactly the same as you; I'd prefer to wait for love. In fact I'm 28 years old and I still haven't had sex yet. I sometimes wonder if I'm going to end up being a real life 40 year old virgin. Only 12 more years to go. -_-
I don't think teenagers are having sex more than they were 20-30 years ago, I just think the increase in population density makes it seem like more because overall, more is occurring.
But aside from that, I do hate how materialistic and dehumanizing out society has become, but as an introvert, I highly doubt I would ever have enjoyed any time other than the Great Depression or the Dark Ages.
Do not fret, however, what you cannot control, because trust me, you will only be miserable. Keep waiting, and eventually you will bump into the perfect person for you and you will live the rest of your short existence in relative complacence.
But aside from that, I do hate how materialistic and dehumanizing out society has become, but as an introvert, I highly doubt I would ever have enjoyed any time other than the Great Depression or the Dark Ages.
Do not fret, however, what you cannot control, because trust me, you will only be miserable. Keep waiting, and eventually you will bump into the perfect person for you and you will live the rest of your short existence in relative complacence.
