Go me for having a momentary lapse in memory and forgetting my username. Anywho...
I think there are plenty of people who are in the societal category of "attractive" while still being hardcore gamers. Just like any other societal group of life, gaming has its own stereotypes, and just like any other, it also has its exceptions. I for one am a bit of an oddity. I'm young, athletic, and happen to like going outside of my house, but at the same I'm a hardcore gamer. I'm a Gladiator ret paladin, player of games across all consoles, computer builder, book worm, and of course an anime watcher; Yes, I'm about as nerdy as it gets. Granted I don't have nearly the time for any of that as I use to, to which you can thank real life for (School, job, gf thing), but I'm still a committed practitioner of the nerd arts while looking somewhat good at the same time.
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