Well... i am fairly disturbed by the amount of parents that push their kid far enough as to break them to tears, i used to do some modeling when i was 10-13 (CLOTHES my mom´s past time was to make clothes) and i remember quite clearly one mother yelling at his daughter because she had lost weight and now the dress (by the way, really beautyfull) didn´t fit... i know it´s a different context but the pressure and stupidity of the parent was the same i turned to my mom and asked her "do my clothes fit??" she looked me from side to side and put some needles to pull the suit in the placess that looked loose "there!" haha what a difference... but some people only want to win no matter the cost (even if the cost is their child)
i find the pageants ok, and well within the limits, i mean beauty haves many forms and ways, but some parents to pose their kids and treat them as objects are definitely wrong... even more because they teach them that "looks" is the only thing that matter