She's Back. Please help...
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Did you ask her to swear on Jesus' name that she has left him behind?
Really, I think you are in the best position to judge her character and make assumptions, but personally I'd always be willing to give someone a second chance. Not a third though.
Really, I think you are in the best position to judge her character and make assumptions, but personally I'd always be willing to give someone a second chance. Not a third though.
It's unlikely she changed in a month. Stuff like that takes a while, and not because of some guy you meet on the Internet. Having dated a crazy, and that is certifiably "went to a mental institution" crazy, girl myself, the best advice I can give you is nip this thing in the bud and end it before it begins.
Sometimes people learn the concept of holding on loosely, sometimes people change. Give it another shot, otherwise it could mean heartbreak for both of you. If things don't go any better, you can stop the relationship at any time, but if you leave her now, you might not ever have another chance. As someone who blew his chances with a girl, I can tell you that if you date her now and end the relationship later, it'll hurt her a lot less in the long run than if you didn't give her another chance.
I actually read your older thread and i say go for it!
Talk to her again, see if she has changed, and well if she hasn't maybe change a bit about yourself as well. It cant be all one way.
I doubt it helps, but ill give it a shot.
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You so have to tell us what you do.
Talk to her again, see if she has changed, and well if she hasn't maybe change a bit about yourself as well. It cant be all one way.
I doubt it helps, but ill give it a shot.
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You so have to tell us what you do.
Perhaps I'm unusual but to me this seems like an easy decision. You said she's almost perfect but for the whole crazy about Jesus thing, if she says she's over that give her the chance ad get back together with her. If she's still crazy, tell her so, and leave is things don't get any better.
Jesus Christ, this. She's crying before you even start talking to you? She's either crazy-obsessive with whoever will give her attention or she's manipulating you (or both).Johnmw said:
I seriously doubt that she's dropped her religious views just to get with you, however that doesn't mean she hasn't spent the last month learning how to censor herself when she's around you, and as long as she can do that her views are her own and you should respect that.
My suggestion is just hang out with her at first, see how she acts and see if you can get along with each other for a while before trying to start any sort of closer relationship, set conditions, and if she breaks any of those conditions end it and never speak to her again. Give her another chance but be cautious about it, don't become too involved very quickly.
My suggestion is just hang out with her at first, see how she acts and see if you can get along with each other for a while before trying to start any sort of closer relationship, set conditions, and if she breaks any of those conditions end it and never speak to her again. Give her another chance but be cautious about it, don't become too involved very quickly.
Exactly this. I had a very good friend of mine who broke up with her boyfriend because he was stalking her, and then 2 weeks later, he was back, and said he'd changed. I keep on telling her that she'd better just leave him alone, but she ignored me and even said I was meddling in things that I had no business in. 1 week later, she calls me and asks me to pick her up, I find her in an alley, naked. He'd raped her, robbed her, and fled. He's still on the run as I write this. While I highly doubt she'd take it that far, do not, and I repeat DO NOT give her another chance.EClaris said:
Not only that, but the fact that she said she'd forgotten her religious views just to be with you shows extreme mental problems or at the very least that she is very desperate and unstable.
I wouldn't do it man, as someone else said, people don't change drastically in just a month. It's possible she's willing to try changing herself for you, but it probably won't happen. She's just trying to get you back.
It might not hurt to keep in minimal contact with her for a while to see if she truly does change, but the outcome probably won't be worth the effort.
It might not hurt to keep in minimal contact with her for a while to see if she truly does change, but the outcome probably won't be worth the effort.