Lukirre said:
tl;dr: Do you think our generation (media) is recreating sexism under a different label?
Do you think women help perpetuate it with a sort of stockholm-syndrome?
Is anyone else tired of seeing the same-old thinly veiled objectification?
Also, I am a male.
The questions are too intelligent for this forum, they belong in Religion and Politics.
Objectification is perfectly natural as women (and men)
are objects, and therefore will naturally be perceived as such from time to time. Ever since the first caveman drew a stick figure with a pair of circles on it on a wall with some charcoal, there's been the objectification of women through media. It hasn't changed much since then. Look at nude statues of girls in any major city over a hundred years old. Why do you think the girls are nude, why don't they have clothing on? Think about it. However, just because someone is an object doesn't mean that they're not also a person, and what a lot of gender theorists seem to miss is that it's perfectly possible to be perceived as a sexual object and a person at the same time.
The other thing you have to understand is that a lot of women actually
like being appreciated for their physical attributes. Sure, they want to be taken seriously too, and have their thoughts and opinions respected, and they certainly don't want people taking unsolicited liberties etc... but there's a time and a place for everything, and I know quite a few women of the curvaceous variety who actually
enjoy and find flattering the comments that they get from men (in the right contexts of course - what's appropriate in the club is not so appropriate in the office boardroom). A good female friend of mine has a body more or less like Jessica Rabbit, always wears figure-hugging or low-cut tops to enhance her already-formidable attributes and seriously enjoys the ruckus she causes every time she walks past a building site. Is she "being objectified"? I guess so. But if she enjoys it, and they enjoy it, where's the problem?
Sexual objectification cuts all sorts of ways, too. Don't assume that it's just men objectifying women, oh no. A tour through some cafes of Sydney's Oxford Street (a mini gay microcosm) reveals quickly that gay men are as keen to objectify each other as straight men are to objectify women. I remember going to a cafe there once and seeing drawings on the walls of young male waiters with exaggerated packages. And women do it too - my current girlfriend is bisexual and she's pretty fast to comment on another girl's boobs if she likes them, and even go a fair bit further than that sometimes... in public... and the amount of times I've overheard locker-room style conversations between women about guys... trust me, they do it too. All the time. Guys just tend to make a bigger display of it, because they're socially dopey and have less willpower.
If you want to look at computer game culture, sure, the tits-out stereotypical girl is ever-present (because market research has shown that "tits=cash"), as is the slightly more realistic Mirror's Edge/Half Life 2 style women, but then most men in computer games also fall into the stereotype of the brawny, muscle-bound alpha male. However, not every girl likes the beefcake guy, just like not every guy likes girls who look like a BDSM Barbie. People's tastes in the real world are vastly more varied than what one would think from looking at media.