I can't think of anything anyone said to me, off the top of my head. My girlfriend, however, has a sister that's transsexual (so it's a brother now). When that sister told one of her male friends she was getting a sex-change, his reply was apparently "I have wanted to see you naked in my bed for a long time."
Ionami said:
[Quoting his posts in general]
Huh? Are you actually trying to say that women don't have sexual fantasies unless they've been traumatized in relation to them?
... Wow. I can't believe no woman in this thread has snapped at you yet. Sexual fantasies are based on personal preference and what ideas you find exciting. Women with rape fantasies probably wouldn't find actual rape exciting, but they can still get aroused the *idea* of rape, particularly if they haven't experienced how sucky it can be themselves. By your logic, everyone who has an excrement fetish has sometime been shat on, and everyone who likes to have sex with people who still have their socks on have been attacked by a pack of rabid socks while on a forest excursion.
Undoubtedly, what you say is the reason is true for *some* women. But most certainly not all, or even close to all of them. You say the source of your information is a contact at a sexual abuse clinic. Well, of course the women with that fantasy that hang out at a sexual abuse clinic have been sexually abused! The women who haven't would have no reason to go there and talk about their fantasies! Your statistics are skewed by the simple fact that the non-abused women aren't part of the studies.
Also, the "50%" figure comes from a previous post, stating that according to surveys about 50% of all women have this fantasy.
