Confidence, my friend. And a more open view of what it truly means to be beautiful. These are the two things every man should have in order to find the right woman for him.
Why am i cursed with such women?
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you have to put up with their shit as much as they put up with yours..It's called compromising, and accepting each others flaws. Not letting petty BS get in the way of something genuine. Nobodies perfect and your a tool if you think your better then her. Besdies shes a woman or a girl..you can't win the war.
I atleast deserve a +11!MaxTheReaper said:On paper, it looks bad, but in practice, it works just fine.twistedshadows said:Definitely not perfect, then.
+10.Mrsnugglesworth said:
Mwahahhaha Its all apart of my evil plot to bring you to your knees! In a totally not homosexual way!MaxTheReaper said:
Hm. Makes me wonder what is so bad that you want or feel the need to lie (I have a curiosity about other people and their problems... I find them disturbingly interesting).MaxTheReaper said:
Women have flaws like we do. Love is accepting them. However, unfortunately, therein lies the rub. I think the problem with us males is, if we know even a tiny bit about women, or if we have any intelligence at all, we see a flaw in anyone we meet, our tendency is to try to "fix" it, which isn't possible with women. They have to fix it themselves, or it won't happen. And if we try to do it for them, the results are virtually always negative, though how they are negative will differ from individuals.
We can't fix them any better than we can fix ourselves. The best thing to do may be to try to be the other half, and fill in for whatever they can't do, and let them do the same. Be a team. But most people here seem not to get to the stage where that is possible too often...
Anyway, I do understand the OP's point. There is a frustration in that culture dictates that the good-looking women go on to act like airheads (even if they're totally capable of being intelligent if they choose to be), and the ugly ones are the only ones who want to talk about whatever we nerds and geeks like. Or if you find one that is reasonably physically attractive who is into games and other similar things, they'll turn out to have very little in the way of social skills and will treat you like crap; read: WoW girls. (And while I know that there are girls who play WoW who might have decent personalities, there is a whole sub-culture of women on WoW that ranges from whorish to bitchy.)
There are women who are more balanced out there, but finding them is not simple, and getting them to notice you is even more difficult. You have to know where to look, and how to act, and how not to lose your true self in the process. To find a balanced woman, in short, you must seek balance within yourself, and reflect that balance in your outside actions.
One last piece of advice: first impressions are very, very important. They make or break attraction. If you have no luck with ANY women in your social situation, I would personally recommend that you move elsewhere, change clubs or schools, and start again there, with more confidence.
We can't fix them any better than we can fix ourselves. The best thing to do may be to try to be the other half, and fill in for whatever they can't do, and let them do the same. Be a team. But most people here seem not to get to the stage where that is possible too often...
Anyway, I do understand the OP's point. There is a frustration in that culture dictates that the good-looking women go on to act like airheads (even if they're totally capable of being intelligent if they choose to be), and the ugly ones are the only ones who want to talk about whatever we nerds and geeks like. Or if you find one that is reasonably physically attractive who is into games and other similar things, they'll turn out to have very little in the way of social skills and will treat you like crap; read: WoW girls. (And while I know that there are girls who play WoW who might have decent personalities, there is a whole sub-culture of women on WoW that ranges from whorish to bitchy.)
There are women who are more balanced out there, but finding them is not simple, and getting them to notice you is even more difficult. You have to know where to look, and how to act, and how not to lose your true self in the process. To find a balanced woman, in short, you must seek balance within yourself, and reflect that balance in your outside actions.
One last piece of advice: first impressions are very, very important. They make or break attraction. If you have no luck with ANY women in your social situation, I would personally recommend that you move elsewhere, change clubs or schools, and start again there, with more confidence.
I don't mean to be rude man, but you didn't need to include the "serious issues" part. It was kind of obvious from the get-go. That said, women sometimes like those traits.MaxTheReaper said:
The world is too messed up to find a "perfect" girl mainly because it is almost impossible (in my opinion)
Erm.
Maybe you need to look towards brighter horizons and stop complaining to the Internet?
Maybe you need to look towards brighter horizons and stop complaining to the Internet?
Don't listen to Max. I don't think he took his meds tonight.Silva said:
hungoverbear said:
because this is not the Esty forums,
honestly I think it has to do with the fact most of us females here share more inline with males and how we approach things, so our rant's are limited... or it could be the fact were outnumbered enough that most of the ladies don't have the.........nerve ( you were expecting balls, admit it) to want to rant.
Girls love the crazy boy thing as well, but I don't understand the appeal! Why would someone want to be in a relationship with someone who is off their rocker? Why are people attracted to the crazy ones? Or the bad boys, because aren't usually bad boys classified that way because they ARE BAD.lordsandro said:
Haha, don't worry, I was being tongue-in-cheek.Flying-Emu said:
It's a question of confidence. If "bad boys" believe in themselves more than "good guys", they will get more attention from the ladies. Whoever shows real confidence, rather than fake "I'm the best" or self-deprecating "I can't do anything right", will attract women, because that kind of male is the one that can support a family. It's purely evolutionary how this works.Snugglebunny said: